There is something deeply simple, and often underestimated, about being able to speak openly about s*x. Not in abstract terms, not hidden behind jokes or silence, but with honesty about desire, curiosity, fantasies, experiences, and yes, even p*rnography. In a world where so much of our private life is carefully edited for public consumption, the ability to say what we like and what we don't is still a radical form of freedom. Talking about s*xuality does not make it smaller or less meaningful. If anything, it does the opposite. It gives it shape, language, and context. It turns something in… Read more